VLL has implemented this Parent Code of Conduct for the important message it holds about the proper role parents play in supporting their child in sports.
The essential elements of character-building and ethics in sports are embodied in the concept of sportsmanship and six core principles of respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, trustworthiness, and good citizenship.
Any parent engaging in improper conduct will be subject to discipline from the league and sanctions may include removal from the facility and suspension from attending future games and league events.
As a parent/guardian, I understand and acknowledge that:
• I play a special role in the development of my child and his/her teammates and my encouragement and good example will do more to ensure good sportsmanship than any other influence.
• I will foster a baseball environment free of abusive, offensive, and vulgar language.
• I will demand a sports environment for my child that is free from drugs, tobacco, and alcohol and I will refrain from their use at all sports events.
• Children participate to have fun and that the game is for youth, not adults.
• I will learn the rules of the game and support the policies of the league.
• I (and my guests) will encourage good sportsmanship by showing respect for all players, coaches, umpires, and spectators.
• I will encourage my child to do his/her best, work hard, have a positive attitude, play by the rules, be respectful of others and resolve conflicts without resorting to hostility or violence.
• I will teach my child to be gracious and humble in both victory and defeat.
• I will not engage in, nor encourage any behavior or practice that would endanger the physical, emotional, or mental well-being of any player.
• I will not ridicule or yell at my child or other participants for making a mistake or losing a competition.
• I will emphasize skill development and practices and how they benefit my child over winning. I will also de-emphasize games and competition in the lower age groups.
• I will promote the emotional and physical well-being of the athletes ahead of any personal desire I may have for my child to win.
• I recognize the challenges faced by umpires, particularly teenage umpires, and will demonstrate positive support and respect their decisions without dissent.
• I will not enter the field of play, nor will I criticize umpires or dispute any of their calls, and I understand that there is zero tolerance for those that do.
• I will inform the coach of any physical disability or ailment that may affect the safety of my child or the safety of others.
• I will never question, discuss, or confront coaches at the game field, and will take time to speak with coaches at an agreed upon time and place.